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Like most everything in my life my desire for a relationship is not completely defined with a single word.. label.. or definition. When it comes to love and relationship there is no such thing as basic.. which is why i’m writing this post

I’m not going to tell you what it is or is not by using BOX words.. which are words that people made up so they can put you in a box to try to comprehend and classify you and your unique life. I’m simply going to describe what this is to ME. I was first exposed to this idea by @gcrush .. her and shone are calling out to the universe for a girlfriend.

I suppose i should start by saying that i don’t have a plan.. a line.. a hook.. to convince any particular person to be in a relationship with me and another girl/boy. I do know that i’d like a boyfriend and a girlfriend and together the three of us would fulfill each other with love, respect, passion, growth, space, companionship, and yes.. lots of yummy sex

Photo thank you to For Her Eyes Only Tumblr blog

Which comes first.. the girlfriend or the boyfriend? Well, that doesn’t particularly matter to me either, but for the sake of keeping this description simply and because i’m craving juicy cock at the moment, I’ll go ahead and say the boyfriend comes first.
So then what? Well, I’ve learned from georgette and shone that it takes a long time to REALLY get to know someone and learn if they are a person you’d want to have in your life forever. So before the girl would be added to the relationship i would need plenty of time to get to know everything about my boyfriend. Only after we’ve determined that we trust each other  endlessly and that our love is the forever kind would we allow the girlfriend search to begin.

Then together we would begin opening our relationship to dating women. We would date her together and make a decision as a couple as to who would be let into our love. Together we would have to get to know her and trust her.. love her and only after that would we allow her into our sexual relationship. [bowchickawowwow]

You + Us = Three

The three of us would love and trust each other the same way two people would love and trust one another. I’d like the balance of a man and a woman in my life. While i am a fiercely independent person i do long for passion, excitement, and love. I’d get my freedom and my sexual fill of cock and pussy.  Having three people in one relationship full of love would be ideal for me. I don’t want children but i do want to remain youthful and i believe that love that is real will keep you young and vibrant.

I suppose i better start by finding a boyfriend or girlfriend first.. as of now this triangle is made up of just me. And who knows.. perhaps this triangle could turn into a square.

SO there you have it.. Me & My Boyfriend.. and our Girlfriend [someday]